Or you could wait and see if, now that the cat is out of the bag, your husband is able to reserve an erection for you often enough to keep you satisfied. I won’t say it’s never gotten me burned in the past, but I still find myself pretty liberal with giving the benefit of the doubt, so I’m guessing this is just one of my personality traits. I don’t know if that’s a totally irrational fear you have or if you have reason to believe that that could be the case. I got pretty upset by this, not because I think there’s anything wrong with him desiring cross-dressing, but because he now wants to make it part of our sex life even though it’s a complete turnoff for me. I barely considered the cheating option for a second before dismissing it and that was before I realized that, like the LW, I was picking through laundry beforehand carefully enough that I know I would have seen it.

Or some other event where you were changing clothes and your clothes got mixed up with someone else’s?As tough as it is to hear, I think the LW should insist on a straight answer, insist on renewed marriage therapy and really think hard about whether she wants to MOA. I hear about this kind of thing all the time and although I don't THINK my husband is a cross-dresser, it usually comes out of nowhere and the wives always claim "they had no idea". I am pretty sure they belong to our friend’s wife although I have never actually verified it because I don’t have a glimmer of suspicion. Personalized advertising may be considered a “sale” or “sharing” of information under California and other state privacy laws, and you may have a right to opt out.

And in an office full of pigs who thought harassing me was part of their job description, life had not been easy for the past few months.First off - I never even HEARD of a bustier before we were planning my daughter's wedding much less ever had one on. I have gotten guy to take me on vacations in the Caribbean wearing panties under their guy clothes the entire trip. I’m a successful professional woman and my hubby has always shown a fair amount of interest in what I wear to the office each day.

I would strongly encourage readers to at least try sharing panties for a few days, or a week, and see if you don't get hooked. Something that stands out in your letter to me is how you’re worried that everyone knows what’s going on but you. I don't want to date a crossdresser in the usual outward sense, but if I can get a guy to wear panties and a bra then it makes for some fun romantic times. If he rejects the idea – based on the idea that what he find sexy about the panties isn’t their feel, but they way YOU look in them – then he’ll probably be VERY excited to see you put them on slowly and seductively.

As a participant in a 20 year marriage, I am always amazed at how many new adventures we find together! Back in the living room, she found her husband still staring off into the distance, mumbling something about see-through panels. also, is it odd to anyone else that they keep their laundry separate- even in separate laundry hampers?

I mean, I personally still wouldn’t be particularly happy with that (assuming they came from a stripper and weren’t just a gag gift), but that would be better than outright cheating. You see, over the years I've secretly become addicted to crossdresser porn and began getting my own panties, bras, wigs, jewelry and makeup and really enjoy the way I look. He sees you being beautiful, sophisticated etc and being a healthy human being under neath all the lies and brainwashing wants to express his own sensuality and sophistication to, of course the only image he as ever seen of that is the image you have been trained by society to portray he sees sensuality and beauty in the crumpled up shape that has been labeled “feminine” by society and is reaching for it to fill a void in himself. When Reg sees what Greg has in his panties his lust goes into overdrive; he tells the younger man exactly what he wants from him.I know it IS one, with good reason, but like, what kind of dude seriously takes a pair of panties home as a souvenir?