One of the longer-lasting underwear vibes on this list, the Silicone Panty Pleaser can be remote controlled from up to 32 feet (10 meters) away, so it’s perfect for teasing your lover in a wide variety of scenarios.

That means it’s small enough to be a “comfy upgrade from fingers or external anal stimulation” for beginners, she says. Tracey Cox’s butt plug has all the requirements you need to safely dive into anal play: a firm but flexible body made with hypoallergenic silicone, plus a slender neck and tapered tip that makes it easy to insert and remove. This silicone toy has pretty much every quality a beginner-friendly plug should have: it’s slim (about as wide as a finger), has a tapered tip for easier insertion, and has a comfortable base that won’t dig into your cheeks.There’s Tease (which lets you manually control the vibration), Groove (which lets you choose between five programmed pulsation settings), and Club (which picks up on ambient sound to control the vibration). This one comes with two smooth silicone toys (a small and medium size), which are easy to remove and clean. This rechargeable silicone plug also comes in a few other sizes, so if you enjoy the motor, shape, and app functionality but want to size up at some point, you can do that. Some underwear is made for panty vibrators and includes a pocket that you can slide a small vibrator inside.

All you need is a simple tap on your phone screen, smartwatch, or connected remote to dial up the intensity. Lovense’s Bluetooth-controllable vibrators are popular with webcam performers and people in long-distance relationships, so if your far-away sweetie wants to control your anal pleasure (or vice versa), this could be a perfect gift.When you realize you’re into anal play—or at least that you’re curious about it—you really should own some butt plugs. The rabbit works similarly to a typical rabbit vibrator, except in this case, the penis or dildo it’s attached to is also attached to your partner. Vibrators are one of the best sex toys for women, but men can also benefit from tingly sensations down there (or anywhere). With a traditional masculine underwear design, these FTM packer boxers are at home in any trans guy’s drawer. Matatas also suggests that people experienced in anal play use this plug to warm themselves up before penetrative anal sex.

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