Thou hast but taken up thy lamp and gone to bed; I stay a little longer, as one stays/ To cover up the embers that still burn.”– Henry Wadsworth Longfellow Kim SH, Baek M, Park S. Association of parent-child experiences with insecure attachment in adulthood: a systematic review and meta-analysis. J Fam Theory Rev. 2021;13(1):58-76. doi:10.1111/jftr.12402 Your father was blessed with a remarkable life, three wonderful children, and 15 great-grandchildren. He certainly had a life worth celebrating. Your dad was always there for me as a mentor figure and a fun person to be around when I was growing up. I’ll always remember how he listened to and cared for everyone in the family. I’ll miss him, too. Sending my thoughts and prayers to you. But we do not want you to be uninformed, brothers, about those who are asleep, that you may not grieve as others do who have no hope. For since we believe that Jesus died and rose again, even so, through Jesus, God will bring with him those who have fallen asleep.”– 1Thessalonians 4:13

Your father was so proud of you and loved you so much. I hope this comforts you as you deal with his loss. I’m so sorry about his death. I’d love to help you in any way possible. Let me know what I can do. I’m so sorry for the loss of your father. Please accept my condolences and let me know if there’s anything I can do to help during this difficult time. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your loved ones right now. I know you must feel lost and heartbroken by the death of your father. This quote reminded me of you: “Sorrow makes us all children again - destroys all differences of intellect. The wisest know nothing.”– Ralph Waldo EmersonThere are many ways to share a message of condolences for the loss of the father. If you decide to share your message publicly, make sure the loss is publicly known and that your friend or loved one wouldn't mind receiving a sympathy message on a public forum. Social media I know this is hard, but I hope you find some comfort knowing that your dad is rejoicing with the angels in Heaven right now. Attend memorial services. Attend memorial services or gatherings to show solidarity. Your presence can offer emotional support and a sense of community. Even though I’ll see you tonight at the visitation, I wanted to tell you how sorry I was to hear about Susan’s father. I know how important he was to your entire family.

I’m sorry I can’t be there for your dad’s funeral. Please know that I have been thinking of you non-stop. Give your babies hugs from me. I will visit soon. Your family has been on my mind lately. You all have been through so much. Please accept my deepest sympathy for the loss of your father-in-law. Even though his death was expected, I know it is never easy. Respect cultural and religious practices. Be mindful of the person's cultural and religious practices. Respect and support their traditions during this challenging time.Martha, Stephen, and Gwen – Please accept my sympathy for losing your husband and father. I know the last three months have been difficult on your entire family, and you are all devastated by the loss of Tom. However, you were all wonderful caregivers and gave Tom a peaceful end. You should feel proud of that. Your dad always gushed with pride when talking about you and your kids. You were precious to him. I am so sorry for your loss.

I have such great memories of your dad. No one was better at telling jokes, and I loved being around him at family gatherings. I’m so sorry for your loss — you’re in my thoughts. Every evening I turn my worries over to God. He’s going to be up all night anyway.” - Mary C. Crowley There is a land of the living and a land of the dead and the bridge is love, the only survival, the only meaning.”– Thornton WilderSome people send flowers to the funeral if they know they can’t attend the service. Others attend the service AND send flowers or another type of sympathy gift basket. Regardless of your choice, here are some sample sympathy messages to send with the floral arrangement.