As we have grown in our relationship and our knowledge of one another’s bodies, and as we have learned to be more giving in the bedroom, we have become better lovers. My hubby knows how to push my happy buttons, and I know what he likes as well. Dave that was the ‘turning point’ for me. I have been ‘living’ since – since. I am still in this marriage because I wanted kids. I have kids now. Their father takes very good care of their every need, and mine too. I am just being careful so I am not caught one of these days. An affair may not be a good thing, however, it has made me look young, and my husband is pleased with my fresh looks. In his head, I am looking good for him. Sex is awesome in my matrimonial home, thanks to the outside experience. What he doesn’t know wouldn’t hurt him in any way.” I overheard an older woman at work complaining about how her husband only does missionary in the bedroom and made a joke about how I would be a million times better in bed than him. I never thought of her in a sexual way before that, but when she approached me after hours and asked me to rent a hotel room with her, I accepted — and I’m glad I did. It was the kinkiest sex I’ve ever had. Handcuffs. Whipped cream. Nipple clamps. She wanted me to give her everything her husband wouldn’t.” — Westley, 30

One time I walked out of the bedroom and was kind of cheerful (OK, maybe VERY cheerful). My kids said to their friend, “Yeah, they did it.” It was just matter of fact. There wasn’t even any giggling. They understand this is an important part of marriage. They also have been briefed on the negative effects of pornography and adultery from us and close friends, using both personal and biblical accounts. Hi all…I am a married woman 33 years of age. I am from an elite, educated family, married to a nice gentleman with whom I had affair from my college days. He is a reader of the college I passed out, and my once-teacher. Professionally I am a teacher of philosophy in a girls’ highs school. We have a daughter age 11 who studies in a boarding school and comes home twice a year on vacations. We have been a family of good culture, education and status for which we all take pride, and earn good respect from the society.

Wifelovers are turned on by women who are already taken.

My 18 yr old wife came to the Army post where I was training. On w/e passes we stayed at a Travel Lodge for some much needed ** - for both of us! She was a hot little SoCal girl! She was a good girl. She didn’t want to cheat on her husband and that’s what drew me to her. She kept turning me down, even though I could tell she was tempted. Then, one day, she let me rest a hand on her leg. Then inch it up higher. And higher. And pretty soon she was coming with only my fingertips.” — Tyler, 27 My boyfriend wants me to divorce my husband and marry him. He’s assured me of taking care of my kids’ education – if I can be bold enough to file for a divorce. Dave, but for the sake of my kids and their father, and their idea of family – I am finding it very difficult to walk out on this marriage. Please tell me I am not making a terrible mistake at age 45?” I ended up running into a group of women celebrating a bachelorette party. The maid of honor was already married, but apparently she thought she had a free pass during their party weekend so she sat on my lap at a club and made out with me the entire night. We didn’t have sex, but with all her grinding, we came pretty damn close.” — Freddie, 22 He pulled me toward him as we made out. I couldn’t contain my excitement so I wrapped my leg around his hips to get on top of him and straddle him. As soon as I was on top of him he started running his hands all over my body.

They may even bring up the topic at Thanksgiving dinner. You know, like when you go around the table and everyone says what they are grateful for. I can just imagine them as adults, sitting there with their wives, saying, “I am so thankful for God’s gift of sex. Grandma, what are you thankful for?” Did anyone else have to take a huge breath before reading this? You ever heard of punctuation mate? You know, commas, full-stops that sort of thing? Maybe a paragraph or two?

tied up spread eagle, when in walked hubby with a pizza delivery boy! I think I went numb in sheer panic, but Even though it only happens once in a blue moon. The last occasion involved a wine tasting in a public venue. As he took a sip of Spain’s best, I whispered in his ear, “I’m not wearing any panties.” He nearly showered the whole establishment with red wine droplets. We downed the rest of the wine samples like shots. I have been in a long term sexual affair with one man for over 15 years. I don’t love him, but I love the sex. He gives me the greatest sex that I can possibly imagine. I have been married for Six (6) years. And yes, I love my husband very much.”

We are building our own Five (5) bedroom house. My husband does not even know my son is not his child. My boyfriend and I are still putting two and two together until it’s time, and then I will leave my matrimonial home – going radio silent. I am just hoping he dies a natural death or I may have to figure something else out if he starts to prove stubborn. (There are numerous ways to kill a cat). I don’t love my husband, Dave, so I honestly do not have any sympathy left in my being for him or his feeling.” We stood up to take it to the bedroom and my partner and I kissed, confirming we were all comfortable to take it to the next level. My bull and I finished undressing each other as my partner was listening on eagerly from the other room. My husband was transferred to a different region to work. He visits home on weekends and on holidays. That’s the genesis of my affair. Distance caused it. I know he’s probably also warming his bed as I speak. I wouldn’t be bothered if he’s cheating. All I pray he does is to practice safe sex, because that’s what I am doing in his absence. I am currently in love with both men.” Women only ever tell you half the story when they confess. It's kind of like when you ask them how many guys they have **, they also cut the number in half.The married women revealed their extra marital affairs to relationship expert, David Papa Bondze. The confessions have subsequently gone viral on social media. I was dating Two (2) men when I found out that I was pregnant. I had to choose between the two guys, which amongst them fit into my idea of a ‘perfect’ father/husband. I chose my husband over the other. My husband is the ‘Good-Guy’ type, very homey, decent, responsible and committed. The other gentleman is more of the ‘Fun’ type, full of energy and jokes. I don’t want to lose any of them – because they both mean different things to me. So, yeah, I’m also cheating on my husband (in fact, did I even stop cheating on both men?) This life! So f**ked up!” This is the confession about my third soft swing - maybe a soft swap - that happened one summer about 20 years ago. Today I'm a 54 year old happily married woman, but learned that my husband's friend, Tom, who we haven't seen since that summer, will be coming to town with his new wife. I have mixed feelings.

My wife and I just returned home from a much needed 10 day vacation on the beach in Mexico. Having been traveling most of the day, we were tired when we arrived at our hotel and decided to head to the beach for a massage. Within in minutes we were both laying on tables overlooking the beach and listening to the waves. We were only about six feet apart with cool towels covering our faces. Every now and then I could hear my wife moan, which I assumed was from the massage. Meanwhile, my massage was okay, but nothing to moan about. Like some crazy sex therapist just made that up to mess with people. But now I know better. I mean, I really really know better.

You have to come clean to your husband. You crossed way over the line this third time - you are an adulterer.