Well that’s a decision. Tomorrow night, for the second time this month, I’ll have a slipper applied to my bottom. But because it’s my boyfriend doing it, I’ll enjoy it?

I wish to ask a close friend to spank me. To my knowledge, he doesn't know I'm into this sort of thing, and though he's the most open-minded person I think I've ever met, I'm afraid of rejection and possibly losing him as a friend (though there's almost no chance of the second one happening, anxiety insists it's a guaranteed thing). I’m not defending his actions, I personally believe hitting children is wrong, but my Dad has always been my hero and he’s ‘rescued’ me more times than I would care to imagine. Whether you’re new to being spanked or a seasoned pro, I strongly recommend Miss Rachel services. Since meeting her, I’ve not gone anywhere else and won’t be needing to because she really is the best. The standard paddling was three hard swats although it was possible to get more. Four or five at most and not that often did a boy get five. I was so embarrassed when my mother stopped spanking me and told me to stand. She then led me to a corner of her bedroom and told me to stand there with my red bottom on display.Will...were those few times you opted for a spanking from your dad worth it, rather than be grounded? I just wanted to thank you again for the experience you were able to provide me. My bottom is still sore, especially whenever I go to sit down. The punishment has definitely made it easier for me to focus on what I need to do in those areas of my life that we discussed. It also seems like the spanking had some sort of therapeutic effect. I mean, I expected to feel some of the weight of the guilt I was carrying to be lifted, and it was. But I have also just been in a much better mood in general since Sunday. I didn’t expect a spanking to have that sort of long term effect on my mood…. I assume he won’t hit me hard (although he does want to use a slipper too) and of course I can stop if I want to.

I guess I could do the “brat” thing, which I’ve never done before, just to make the spanking seem “legit,” but that seems disingenuous. Hummmm . . . but by being disingenuous, I will have Transgressed, thus, another spanking! Maybe there is something to that approach! When I was a kid, I once felt guilty after having argued and been disrespectful to my parents. The next morning, before school I asked my dad to spank me. He put me across his knee and spanked my bare butt with his hand. We both felt better. I actually plan on using my belt and maybe another implement before finishing the spanking off with this new strap. Sort of on an exclamation point, if you will. 😉 Going on caningabottom's comment - i will say this "do something childish and see how this person responds" no harm no fowl if this is meant to be it will happen and if not well you did try.little gasps and exclamations soon turned to apologies and pleading. “I’m sorry,” I said. “I’ll be good from now on… You can stop now, please… No more, please… I’ve learned my lesson… I’ll be good, I’ll be good!” But Gail just maintained the steady In junior high, my mom gave me the choice of being grounded or getting spanked and I readily agreed to grounding. I found that miserable and the next time I was told I was being grounded I asked for a spankings instead. I got a sound whipping on my bare butt but it was over and I preferred it to grounding.