Stress is an enemy of great sex. So is anxiety about performance. Minimizing both helps maximize your enjoyment of your partner. “If we can quiet our monkey-minds, put a stop to that ceaseless inner-chatter, we can open ourselves up to better sex,” Britton says. Lube is one of the best secret weapons for female orgasm. It helps you feel more sensation from touch, and a dab of lube on your clitoris makes it easier for you to have an orgasm during intercourse, by helping your partner’s body glide against yours. You can use organic coconut oil, but keep in mind oil can break down condoms, so this only works for couples using a different form of protection.”

And I felt that that was such a shallow version of sex. What if we could see the complete picture? I had begun to do some research into what spiritual intimacy really looks like, and I realized that this was an important component missing from our conversations about sex: that it was supposed to be holistic–intimate physically, emotionally, and spiritually. 3. I wanted to help women escape purity culture In fact, we have over one hundred articles on how to get your game on between the sheets to ensure you — and your partner(s) — are having the best time possible.

Anyway, just wanted to say how much I appreciate everything you do. (The Great Sex Rescue was also incredible.) Can’t wait to read the new edition of “The Good Girl’s Guide.” Reply Discuss new ideas. If you want to try something new, discuss it with your partner, and be open to his or her ideas, too. The senior years—with more time and fewer distractions—can be a time of creativity and passion.

Society has made it acceptable for women to put male satisfaction ahead of their own,’ says Alex B Porter, author of The Cunnilinguist: How To Give And Receive Great Oral Sex. Maybe you're looking to boost your erections, strengthen your orgasms, and last longer in bed, or perhaps you're trying to amp up your skills when it comes to pleasing your partner. Maybe you're curious about exploring anal play, want to know which sex toys are best for couples, or like to learn how to bring up your deepest, darkest sexual fantasies with your partner. Perhaps your sex life has grown stale, and you want to dabble in some BDSM (Bondage and Discipline, Domination and Submission, Sadism, and Masochism) or are even considering finding a third to play with. Whatever it is, we almost certainly have advice that can help. It still would score really highly on our rubric–and unlike the other 13 books we looked at, my original did include the word consent! (Well, technically it was the word “consensual”, but I would have counted that). And it did win a huge prize in 2012 for the best Christian book by a Canadian. But it was time to update it. Aged 14, agonising over forgetting tampons, or living in fear of stains, was fair enough – but at 25, 28, 33...? I assumed I was failing at menstrual management while everyone else aced it. Oral sex is often lauded as the cherry on top of the orgasmic cake for both parties involved: an act of vulnerability and utter release. But for some women? It's simply not that enjoyable, especially when receiving oral inspires thoughts about hygiene down there.I’m sure the new GGGTGS is even better than the old one. But for this bride, it would have come two years too late – so I’m beyond grateful for the old version! Reply Without pressing workloads or young children to worry about, many older adults have far more time to devote to pleasure and intimacy. Use your time to become more intimate. Candid and contemporary, this book gives you a Christian place to turn for answers to your most intimate--and embarrassing--questions.