Furthermore, there’s a difference between wearing a dress made out of cotton and one made out of polyester. As a woman with lots of outfits, you ought to know that better than anyone. 9. Don’t Forget the Lingerie The words you choose can have a big impact on his psyche as a submissive. I’ve found that using words ordinarily reserved for the female gender like “sweetie”, “baby doll”, or “sugar” can remind him of his submissiveness. Using the words “pretty” or “cute” instead of “handsome” is another subtle way of enforcing role reversal that will not go unnoticed. Many women complain that chastity devices are fun when there is sex involved, such as when I am meeting my date and my husband is caged. It gets into both of our heads and creates a fun dynamic. But what about the rest of the week which is filled with work and commitments? We had some rules to remind ourselves of his role. For instance, I dressed first for work and he remained naked until I left the house. This gave him time to make my coffee, make the bed and do other household chores. The presence of the cage, made this routine a little more lively. He wore the cage to work, the gym, and walking the dog. As a sissy, your husband may be more inclined to take on a submissive role, which means he’ll be happy for you to take control of certain aspects of his life. For example, you could ask him to help with housework like cleaning, laundry, and cooking when you’re busy. I’ve experimented with some new looks for Alice. I like to keep her ‘on her toes’ so it’s good to shake things up from time to time so she doesn’t get too comfortable.

Humiliation as a fetish is hard to define and regularly misunderstood. You may see comments on the Internet criticizing wives for even inquiring how to humiliate their husband with responses like “If you love him why are you humiliating him?” Uh, because it turns him on and he yearns for it. See why is it confusing to you? How can something be humiliating if your partner wants it to happen? Take forced feminization, for example, another wildly confusing subset of the so-called sissy fetish. If your partner is turned on by wearing panties, why would you need to force him to do it? In recent months I’ve been receiving far more correspondence than in the past from women like me. That’s to say strong women who have force feminised their husbands and live in FLRs.My own husband was more reluctant and he needed stronger encouragement. I would say that was because he didn’t realise he wanted to be feminised so I had to overcome his inner social conditioning. I was his guide. You can let your sissy in training choose from your own underwear drawer, or take him shopping and let him buy his own. Men have broad shoulders and large chests in general. As such, wearing a strapless dress or shirt will make them stand out. In other words, you will be able to recognize him from a distance even if he wore an entire palette of makeup and a wig. So my question is how can I help him to dress as a woman full time, including in public? I'd love to get him all dressed up and take him on a date? Would it be a good idea to get him a really nice dress, wig and really awesome makeup and take him out for a nice dinner and night out? I know he may be nervous, but one thing I know about my husband is that if I push him a little out of his comfort zone, he does amazing (he recognizes this, too). So, how can I accomplish this? I'm also wanting to help him to make the leap for breast implants; I think they'll complement him nicely. Fiction is fun and I write a lot myself about forced feminisation as a method of punishment. The truth is far more complex in real-life relationships. Alice’s forced feminization was a gift, it gave me control, she is a better person and she’s even more attractive as a girl. It adds a certain spice to our marriage.

Online searches suggests that if a male doesn’t cum for a long period, the semen and sperm is released through urine or reabsorbed. It’s quite safe therefore, for a male to not cum and I want Alice to be safe. But no matter your preference, here are a few things every sissy boy should add to his new wardrobe: I should mention here that we both work at home from our computers independently. Also worth mentioning is that his body shape/size/height all work very well for women's clothing. (5'4'', slim, not broad shoulders or hairy etc.) So, he can look really good in these outfits.If one partner is not 100% on board, then you have to accept that. It may be they just need more time or information, but no matter what, you should respect their boundaries. Interestingly, there are plenty of online shops that cater to cross-dressers. You can find anything from male factory worker items for women and female evening gowns for men. First of all, turning your man into a sissy won’t happen overnight. It’s a slow and difficult process that will require patience. But what is absolutely vital is constant communication. You know what You enjoy and like. Equally, You know of many other things that You want to happen. Only You can make them happen as You know Alice and how to both manipulate and guide her also. You know that she will be reticent about certain things whilst at the same time be trusting of Your guidance and control. It’s a case of marrying Your wishes and her human needs and equally concerns in a way that allows things to continue to evolve.

During this wait, Sissy might be plugged with a dildo (it’d be cute if a little bell were attached to the exposed end). Sissy’s mouth might be similarly plugged, also with bell, so plugged and belled at both ends. Cross dressers are usually heterosexual men who like to dress up in women's clothes. They discover their need to cross-dress during childhood starting out by dressing up in their sisters or their mother's clothes. They soon find out that it is not accepted and are told to stop it. They feel ashamed, become secretive and try to suppress their feelings and their desire to crossdress. Don’t think I’m trying to tell you how you have to live your life. That’s far from the truth. I’m just offing up some food for thought.The next morning I woke early and reached for him. By now I was worried that sex wasn't in the picture at all. So I took control.

We started anal training by using a fabulous butt plug. This not only stretched my sissy husband’s ass out but it also relaxed the muscles and the vibrations brought him so much pleasure and he wasn’t allowed to cum. We will cover this near the end in our tip section, but we’ll briefly state it here. Never, under any circumstances, push for your husband to do this. By all means, talk to him about it at length, teach him about all the benefits, etc. Of course, if he still says no, you have to respect that boundary. 3. Have an Outfit Set in Advance I’ve always liked to see her in a very short skirt. I prefer her without panties these days, I think it keeps her feeling vulnerable and, as my regular readers know. I love her bits out on show for me. Sometimes this is nothing more than her clitty being available for me to hold or stroke them when we’re watching TV. For complete sissification, it’s a good idea to throw out his regular boxers and briefs, forcing him to wear his sissy panties all the time. Essay. Each sissy must write an essay in, say, half an hour. The subject: Why I am the Best Sissy… or Why I am not a Real Man.The level of resistance to forced male feminisation seems to depend on the man’s desire to be feminised. Many seem to want to be pushed so it’s more of an encouraged feminisation. Sometimes, men themselves recommend cross-dressing to their wives. If your husband does so, make sure you give the whole thing a good, long think. If and when you’re ready, you can start the dress-up routine. 2. Make Sure Your Husband is Ready Things are going well at her job. She has been embraced by most of her coworkers and the couple that haven’t keep their distance. There are two women there who know of our FLR and make sure Selina is submissive towards the women at work. It’s fun letting other women in on our life and seeing them enjoy Selina’s femininity and submissive nature….and take advantage of it! And what better way to have that talk than with a demonstration? Ask your husband to wear some of your clothes for a while and see how it fits. By using various outfits on him, you are effectively teaching him what your own tastes are.