Okay there’s a big elephant in the room and I thinks it time somebody pointed it out. Yeah, your wife screwed with this guy. Hell yeah he had his underwear off. And the fact that your wife is being evasive about what clearly happened should point it out all the more. Ask anybody else in that party? They would all have told you. Your wife cheated on you for ten minutes right under your nose. Your wife’s friend who set it up probably knows what happened in the bedroom; women do talk to each other. Why don’t you pry her for an answer? Reveal Yourself: Post a photo/video of you wearing something revealing for your date (significant other excluded). Get an internet boyfriend: Post a photo of you forming an internet boyfriend/plaything relationship and let Hubby know. But the reality is that it happened, and you are denying yourself the truth. You just don’t want to believe it. Remember your wife did have a crush on this guy before this whole thing started, so how can she not deny her temptation which was so finely set before her on a platter? Drinks were flowing, the stage was set with spotlights and cameras rolling…. and you just stood there and let it all happen. First of all, it includes the idea that a woman in a relationship is still very desirable for other men, which can be a huge turn-on for any husband. Secondly, through the hotwife process, the wife in a marriage can attain a lot of pleasure, no matter if she desires to simply flirt or kiss with other men, or if she wants to go all the way and have sex with them. In any case, she will get the thing she secretly desires and this will make her happy, along with enforcing the marriage at the same time. Additionally, the husband can arrange for all of this to be performed in his presence, where he can see his beautiful wife in a way he never did before. All of this can be an incredible boost to the couple’s intimacy drive, which will definitely make for a better sex life when they are on their own.

Hi. A bunch of us (about 12-14 people) were playing Truth or Dare a week ago at our house. My wife and I are happily married for a few years, and this is not the first time we have had 'semi-wild' parties (read, not swinger parties, just 'fun' parties). In 2010, both our jobs were transfered and we moved into a new house with my pre-teens and the baby. Life was good, we played around with a few couples and as it was easy, had a few threesomes with single guys. None of it meant anything. Deep down, you probably were turned on by it, or why didn’t you take a stand and keep your wife from entering the viper’s pit? You were there cheering it on weren’t you?

In Conclusion

If you had anything to say about it the time you should have done it was then and there, not after the fact. Thanks for all the advice, us talking it out and Both deciding it was a no-fault situation and never to put ourselves in this scene again has helped. We're both closing out this chapter in our lives and just forgetting about it. Get Involved: Message the moderators for an invite to the VIP chatroom. Please note the criteria to get in! Get Curious Make a post in the /r/HotWifeLifeStyle community asking questions you may have. Interact with at least two people who answer you. Thanks to everyone. We talked about this, I especially mentioned that part that me wondering and assuming the most would be worse than talking the truth. Well she did play with him, and while she was kissing his chest and stroking his penis, he tried to push her head down to give him a blowjob. As much as she admitted being turned on by his body she knew that would be very wrong. She ending up finishing him off with a handjob. She feels very guilty, but as someone here said, we both played this 'dangerous' game willingly, and I knew she was turned on by this guy. Well, no more Truth or Dare for us. This is the first time it went this far, but now we're both a little embarrassed that probably everyone that was there is assuming that they did something in our bedroom (well they did, but they probably assume even more than what happened).

Dinner Was Spicy Post a photo/video of you wearing a remote-controlled vibrator to dinner. Give your significant other/date the control. A few days later we invited him to our house (kids were all gone), played around, we were his first threesome couple and he got a bit weird-ed out by all of it and finally said he couldn't continue. (although he changed his mind a few weeks later), but we never saw him again. Get Verified: Post a photo of your hand with a wedding ring showing holding a piece of paper with your Reddit name. If you are a HotGF, just skip the ring part. Alternatively, link us to your https://www.reddit.com/r/GetVerified/ post. Release Control: Post a photo/video of you giving up control of your Lovesense sex toy during a digital play session.Showtime: Post a photo/video of you putting on a sexy show for a crowd of 2+ people using a video app. Have an Encounter: Post a photo/video of you having a digital play session on messaging or video apps with somebody you trust but is not Hubby. The session must include masturbation at a minimum. So to summarise. You "dared" your wife to have sexual encounters without you. Over and over again. Although she felt "creepy", "nervous", "not in the mood" and so on. Over several years. Until finally she met someone who she enjoyed having sex with. At which point you freak out. And let this eat at you for a year.