Come to the room at noon and don't be late! This was the first message I received when I arrived in Chicago. I was made to lean over the bed and await my fate of being strapped by two women at the same time. The stings of the strap immediately rained down on my bottom. I screamed out in pain, even cussing horrible language. I thought I was going to get my mouth washed out with soap for using such profane language. But Ms. Dana and Ms. Sarah let me release my deepest guilt and allowed me to shout out what ever came to my mind. I can wear whatever clothing you feel would make this the perfect session for you. If we are doing an office role play where I am your boss and I spank you, I can dress in professional business type clothes. If you want the feel of seeing a dominatrix, I can wear leather and corsets and boots. If you want to feel like you are being spanked by your mom or aunt, I can dress very domestically. Once a week, Daily Intel takes a peek behind doors left slightly ajar. This week the The Kinky Blogger Who Gets “Maintenance Spankings”: Female, 27, Queens, blogger, in a relationship, mostly straight. p.m. Therapist asks if I’m physically afraid of him hurting me. I tell her of course not. Boyfriend has a temper, but I trust he would never hit me unless it was kinky and/or sexual in some way. She asks if I would tell her if I was physically afraid of him ever. I say of course. Still, this question annoys me. But I guess she is just being a good therapist, right?

p.m. Showering and shaving my legs. Not sure what to do about the Brazilian. I’m not supposed to shave there after I wax, right? Damn, I wish I could Google in the shower. I like the way it feels when my fingers run over the lips of my labia. My play style is usually welcomed in most situations and thankfully when I asked to participate in the middle of this next scene (a very daring move) I was given a green light. Mind you, I would never have interrupted a scene… But, the Bottom in the scene and I were friends and with only one weekend to play and so many to play with, we wanted to make sure we got our time together… She looked up at me with her adorable eyes and said yes with a knowing smile… Once she said yes, happily, they kindly made space for me to flog her with my new teal colored flogger!

If you believe that marks and bruises are a necessary component of your spanking experience, I have no problem doing that. However, if you just want a spanking that will leave you a nice shade of red without deep marks, I can do that as well. I feel I have to mention the so-called Markham Project, because as fascinating as it may sound, it is likely to be a complete fabrication. Stoltz Sinatra in his brief essay The Markham Project - Fact or Fiction?, explains the project was allegedly named after a professional Victorian governess and educationalist called Elizabeth Markham. Between the 1880s and the early part of the 20th century she aimed to encourage best practice in the training of governesses and the education of young women by creating a network of like-minded governesses and others who who were trying to set-up some sort of academy to further their aims. They supposedly "advocated corporal punishment of young women over the age of 16 and unmarried ladies up to a late age." I understand that my requirements for attire may seem unconventional to some, but it is important to remember that within the realm of role-play sessions, creating a specific atmosphere and dynamic is crucial. By asking participants to dress in feminine attire, it sets the tone and helps both parties immerse themselves fully in the chosen scenario.

A faint smile came to the man's lips. "I am sure it will help you remember our little meeting today." In a lower, slightly menacing voice, Bryson went on, "Draw up your chemise to your waist, Miss Glenwood. Then, bend over in front of my desk, elbows on it." p.m. He pulls the “demerits” list off the fridge. I have accrued twenty demerits this week, each one punishable by a spanking, for offenses like being messy and teasing him. I bend over the bed, arching my bottom up in the air. He spanks my bare butt through open-bottomed fishnet panties. First he uses his hand, then he finishes with a ruler that says la petite lecon (the little lesson). Once my “punishment spanking” is over, he pulls off those trashy fishnets and I lay on the bed. My arms are restrained to the bed and he bangs me missionary-style while he tells me that I’m his. This might be the most aggressively he’s ever had sex with me before.As I gradually climbed over Ms. Sarah's lap, I anguished for what she was about to do to my bottom. Her utter voice inside my ear telling me why I was being punished was emberrible. I hated to disappoint my mentor. The spanks delivered to my bottom were amazing though! I never felt so close to someone in my whole entire life. Ms. Sarah's hand spankings were desirable and unforgettable at the same time. As Ms. Sarah finished spanking my bare bottom she respectfully motioned Ms. Dana to take her turn with me. The best part was that though we didn’t “know” each other, each person had that “familiar smile.” That glimmer I see at every party & know only too well. A smile of sheer joy at the opportunity to act out a fantasy for real! How to Spank Girls Safely The inclusion of a petticoat adds an extra layer of femininity and helps to enhance the overall aesthetic. It is a small detail that can make a significant difference in capturing the essence of the role-play experience. I nervously got up from Ms. Sarah's lap and dragged my feet slowly to Ms. Dana's right side. When Ms. Dana took my left shoulder in her hand and brought me down upon her thighs my stomach trembled in fear. Before I knew it, Ms. Dana's hand was pounding down on my bottom like no return. Her unforgettable voice telling me why I was being punished will never be forgotten. When the hand spanking was over I was made to show each of them my red bottom. Then both of them agreed that my bottom was not red enough and it was time for the strap. It is hard to imagine that after almost 30 years of attending spanking &/or kinky parties, I am never bored! And that fact is still true for this “kinkster” even after attending what I found out was the last July party for the Crimson Moon organization.

This post (& probably several more to come) will include images from scenes I was fortunate enough to be a part of in one way or another. Capturing some of them meant I was given VIP permission to stand right in the middle of a scene in progress. It is an honor I do not take lightly. These images will give the subjects proof that it really happened and their audience a view most never get to see. her last spanking, which occured when she was 18 years old. (contributed by jan) - In her biography debby I have often wondered why the erstwhile figure of the governess holds such fascination in the present day. Could it be attributed to the way in which the governess has been portrayed in fiction and film - as a stereotype of a generally impoverished woman, neither servant nor family member, yet who constantly emerges as the heroine, often escaping a prim middle-age by marrying the local curate or the master of the house? With the help of an internet search engine, I decided to do some digging. And this is what I found.

Jacob and Amelia will not be requiring hot water for their bath today, thank you cook. Kindly have the tin bath filled with cold water, and bring me a scrubbing brush and a bar of carbolic soap." The eldest was first taken to her dressing room and prepared for the rod, and then conveyed to the boudoir by the governess, who at once administered the discipline. The younger one was then prepared and received a wholesome flagellation [on the bare posterior], the delinquents being tightly strapped to an ottoman during the castigation, at the conclusion of which they had to kiss the rod and thank the governess, when they were permitted to retire. js_anon has a talent for writing verse, and some of his poems feature the governess, as in The Governess and The Cane; The Governess - Much Angrier; and The Husband's Governess. The latter concludes with: Miss Glenwood's face had become as red as fire; her eyes flashed with anger. "You sir, are no gentleman," she hissed, "to force a lady to strip almost naked, like a common trollop! Is humiliation a part of my punishment as well?" It is no surprise that today's lifestyle disciplinarians and dominatrixes often masquerade as a governess who invites her clients into her world of very strict corporal punishment, using their prerogative to remove adult privileges and apply any number of strict measures. I have it on good authority that clients pay a handsome fee to be spanked, caned, whipped, paddled and humiliated by a stern governess!